Being Single and Being Married
Being Single and Being Married
When I was twenty years old, my mother told me that it was times for me to get married. I replied to my mother whenever I succeed in life and able and anxious to protect our family, I am going to think about having a home of their own. Not only I but also people who is living in today’s society, tends to being single or married later. However, living in every situation has every its own advantages and disadvantages. There are some differences that I know between being single and being married, such as: times, finances and relationships. Firstly, the difference between being single and being married is times. Every morning waking up, doing house work calling to friends or going to shopping is the life of single. That is life without the constraints, so freedom and independence are slogan of single persons. They have a lot of time to go anywhere or do anything that they like. Opposite to being single, married life is a race against time.
Exception time spent of work, most of the remaining time is for family. The time for the family as teaching, taking care of child, cooking or housework is one of the conditions required in marriage. Time is seen as a wire to close people in the family together. It creates happiness that everyone wants to be. So, being married is a hot thread that persons who take interest in, spends a lot of time to think and get experiences about it. Another difference between being single and being married is finances. Being single controls money by oneself, and cost of single life is cheaper than married life. Kinds of insurances, types of taxes and everything that relate to life, is anxiety of being married. When a couple wants to get married each other, they always care about cost of their life. On the other hand, single persons are paid salary every month, and they spend their life by their money. Single persons do not need to worry much about finances.
However, this case is not always right, sometimes it is reversed. Finally, the difference between being single and being married is relationships. Being single makes many relationships and has many friends. Life of being single is not bind of any relationship. However, that is a serious problem if single person do not have a good relationship. In contrast to being single, being married has family ties. That is a responsibility part of persons in family, but being married has a great moral strength. When people faces to some problems or feeling bad, the first thing which people always think to, is family. Being married means having a family, and it is a best moral support. Being single never has these things. The love from friends is able to replace to love from family for a single person, but that thing is a big difference. I
n conclusion, the differences between being single and being married are times, finances and relationships. Being single and being married have its advantages and disadvantages. Times are important thing to marriage life, but it is normal for being single. In addition, being single differ to being married, finances are big problems with being married while finances is easy for being single. Relationships are one of matter of persons who are interested in life of marriage. All of these things effect to persons who decide being married or being single. In my mind, later marriage is a best way for current economy life.