The days of darkness and frustration constitute the life of man. The world today is collapsing into a helpless state of boredom.The weariness, fret and fever of life have made man to deduce, “where but to think is to be full of sorrow”. We are crumbling under the mounting pressure of defeatism and self-frustration. Today various factors of life have made man morbidly tired of himself. In the midst of intellectual, moral and spiritual bankruptcy, the forces of optimism though bleak, appear to be the only sustaining force.
We in our frustration are made to think that life is not entirely devoid of joy and happiness.
It is wrong on our part to lose faith in the ultimate goodness of things. Life may change, but it may fly not; hope may vanish, but can die not, truth be veiled, but still it burneth, love repulsed, but it returneth. ” Shelley We must realize that in the course of life good and evil days follow in succession.
Each follows the other as night follows the day. Indeed, it is human nature to welcome joys and condemn sorrows. But we must bear sufferings with patience and fortitude in the hope that as spring follows winter, joy will follow sorrow. “If we had no winter, the spring would not be so pleasant; if we did not sometimes taste of adversity, prosperity would not be so welcome.
Anne Bradstreet To be able to be the streak of silver lining that edges the threatening clouds of despair is the prerogative of only a few. Most of us only concern ourselves with the present and blink at future. Our vision is circumscribed by the difficulties and problems which confront us. The limits of the immediate cripple us. We wish but dare not hope. We work but dare not expect. We are apologists in anticipation and defeatist in our performance. The buoyant spirit of hope and happiness is lacking in us. It is essential that we cultivate the spirit of hopefulness. The line is an optimum of optimism.
Optimism is the attitude of life which must be formed. An optimistic attitude is the healthy sign of life and struggle. It makes us self- reliant and grant fixity of purpose. It infuses a new spirit in our timid hearts and injects a vitalizing energy in our veins. Instead of being mere puppets in the hands of chance, faded notions and sordid illusions, it makes us persons of indomitable will and, lofty aspirations. It is rightly said, “Practice begets facility” therefore, it is better to wear out than to rust out in inactivity. Victor Hugo rightly said, “People do not lack strength, they lack will”.
Though for the present the cold winter be the ruler all around, yet the very approach of winter means the impending arrival of the spring season soon after winter. Winter must at last come to an end. It must be followed by the colorful spring which brings colorful flowers and bird’s sweet songs. After all, the circle of seasons must continue moving unhindered. “Laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face. ” Victor Hugo Day is followed by night and night by day. Similarly, in life every period of sorrow and despair has at last to come to an end. It is followed by a period of peace, comfort and joy.
We must have a firm belief in the goodness of things and have a strong self-confidence. There is no occasion for feeling dismayed. “If hopes are dupes, fears may be liars. ” The best attitude in life is that of an optimistic stoic. Joys and sorrows should be treated in their own stride. They should be given equal treatment. Thus, we must rest assured that our sorrows, if any, are short-lived and a period of joy awaits us. Such thinking will always maintain our equipoise and peace of mind. Stanley Horowitz is of the view, “Winter is an etching, spring a watercolor, summer an oil painting and autumn a mosaic of them all. ”