As modernization evolve, so too is technology. Persons are finding easier and faster methods communicating with friends and loved ones. There are many forms of communication, however I will be comparing and contrasting face-to-face and social media interactions. Face-to-face interactions is becoming less prevalent modern society. social media terrace such as, Facebook, WhatsApp and Instagram, has taken over causing face-to-face interactions to lose its symbolism. Social media on is widely spread. It has taken the primary form of communicating. Daily persons is finding more cool ways to make communicating fun through the media tools.
Both face-to-face and Social media interactions has their extremity and confines that makes them different. However, once compared one will notice that they share equal creative ways. The two forms of interactions are used on a daily base but one is simply preferred better over the other. One comparison is that face-to-face and social media interaction uses expression to convey messages. When someone is texting, one can send ‘Internet expression’ and when talking ‘Self-expression’ is used.
Another similarity is both interactions is time consuming. One instance, it took me 3 weeks from calling my aunty, when I finally did, we spend over and hour catching up. People also meet new people face-to-face.
Another compariosn is bullying can be prevalent in both interactions. Persons are bullied and harassed face-to-face and so too over social media. Face-to-face interactions and social media consist of boundaries and limits. Persons are exploited in many forms. There `are limits to what a person can tolerate and take.
Constant harassment, for example verbal harassment and non-verbal harassment, be it on both platforms. Sternberg (2012), defines face to face interaction as the mutual influence of everyone direct physical presence with his/her body language.
There are many contrasting reasons which distinguish face to face interactions from social media. Communicating face-to-face allows that person to convey emotions that cannot be expressed by via social media interaction. Persons talk also with body language. There are instances when communication through telephone, or media tools cannot reflect the seriousness of that person speaking and its possible one will not be able to see through these people’s feelings. Eye contact is the key. Law enforces for example, trying to solve a criminal matter the face to face interaction with the suspect can determine a lot whilst having that difficulty maybe over the phone or through what’s app. My example is this; My mommy lives in Trinidad, we speak most of the times on phone and video chat on Facebook, but the dialogue differs seeing her when she visits on holidays. From the time, she lands on the airport and she is in-sight, is hugs, kisses, laughter and we will chat and chat till we reach destination. In a twinkle of an eye, persons can speak globally through social media. These days calling oversees are so expensive. It’s usually a stress for persons who cannot afford to pay for long distance calls, so to keep in touch with loved ones is a constant struggle. Social media is like one-two-three. Websites such as, Facebook can make easier and less time consuming. A person using WhatsApp, can stay hours on their phones talking and can video chat to see each face-to-face. Social media keeps everyone up to date about things happening with everyone. Facebook, Instagram, Twitter allows exchange of one another photos, videos, post comments and even view one another personal information. Persons stay connected to each other daily.
Secondly, face-to-face interaction is important for people and businesses who need to discuss serious matters such as meetings, project etc. When there is an important issue that requires a decision, having meeting face to face will help reach a consensus more quickly, there’s more energy and opportunities to participate and creatively make contributions. However, with social media, it makes communicating easier. Instead of sitting at the office to have a meeting, the touch of one button for example whats app the company can set up a group chat in which all business matters can be related and discussed collectively without having to meet face to face. Also, skype calls for a business meeting can be used via video right in the comfort of the office without having to drive or go anywhere. Social media also helps save money and prevents tedious travel. Imagine having to travel every year to visit your loved ones.
Third, face to face interaction tends to introduce socialization. someone you haven’t seen in a while, when you do see, conversations are usually very long. However, with social media interactions, texting will get boring quickly. person tends to run out of conversation at times. Also, timely responses also come to play. Online a person might also take long to respond to each other messages as contrast to face to face, responses can be faster. According to Cohen and Wills 1985, “Having face to face interaction with neighbors, friends, and families have found to improve people’s level of social support, fulfillment of their own relationships, making sense of life, self-esteem, commitment to communities and psychological and physical well-being”.
Sarcastically, a world without no phones, no social media technology present, people will have no other choice but talk to one another directly. Social media acts as secondary platform for persons to speak directly to each other. And Face to face is primary. The rules that govern social media interactions have great distinction from those of face to face interactions. Social media and face to face interaction, both vary by interactions, and emotions. Social media is highly favored because of the less timing consumption, making new friends, saving money and somehow improves relationships. With face to face interactions, it is easier to grow strong relationships with better bonds, easier to convey emotions and expressions and straight up responses. Both form of interactions consists of communications which we as individuals rely on heavily to carry out our daily lives and activities.