The Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
The Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions
My first meeting was held behind a church in separate building I walked down a hall and found the meeting room fairly easily. Outside of the room were a few folks making coffee and talking. Inside the room there were people sitting here and there; some talking together, some sitting alone. I took a seat by the door. It seemed like ages on that first day, before the meeting actually got started, in reality it was about 10 minutes. There were about 30 people who were seated in a circle of chairs. One person sat in the middle of the circle. Later I learned that she was the meeting chairperson for that particular day. The meeting began with the chairperson reading the AA Preamble, then leading a group prayer, the Serenity in which people recited. Afterwards different members of the meeting read brief AA literature, “How it Works,” the “Twelve Traditions” and “The Promises.” I listened to each of them very closely having never heard them before. The chairperson asked if there was any newcomers, or first timers, attending the meeting who would like to introduce themselves by their first name.
A few raised their hands, I was not one of them, as this was an obvious option and not mandatory for me to do. This particular meeting that I attended was a Step Meeting. This of course meant very little to me since at that time I had no experience with these “steps” but I continued to sit and listen. Thus far, no one had imposed himself on me so there was no reason to leave and I was curious about this “AA” thing. The chairperson announced which step they would be discussing. To be totally honest with you, I was more transfixed on being in awe of the meeting itself and the fact that these people all sat there seemingly unashamed, that I, to this day, haven’t a clue which step they discussed. After the step chapter was read from the book, “Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,” the chairperson then asked if anyone had any experience, strength and hope relating to the step, which they would like to share. To me this was the most fascinating part of the meeting! Watching people begin to share their experiences with alcohol then relating it to the step was fascinating and familiar since some seemed to pull these things from my own experiences.
During the meeting, people simply began talking. Each starting off by introducing themselves as, “Hello, my name is (first name) and I’m an alcoholic” and yes, just as in the movies, at this point the room burst into a, “Hello (first name)!” After they completed their “story” everyone in the room thanked them. Then the next person would speak up. After everyone completed sharing the chairperson asked if there were any AA-related announcements. Then she announced that it was time for the Lord’s Prayer, and everyone stood in a large circle, holding hands, and reciting the prayer. I opted to stand back at this point and did not participate. Once the prayer was over, the meeting ended.
People gathered, talking, and there was a social air now to the meeting. Again, some introduced themselves to me, asking questions which I avoided answering with any direct answer. I left fairly quickly after the meeting ended. My feeling as I drove home from that first meeting was one of awe, relief, and some fear. I knew though, regardless of the fear, I wanted to go again. I learned that addiction affects all types of people. There is no set standard and you can never judge a book by its cover. AA is open to anybody who is ready for change; most that came to this meeting were ready or had already changed.
University/College: University of Arkansas System
Type of paper: Thesis/Dissertation Chapter
Date: 30 October 2016
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