Accepting change in order to grow can change who you are as a person or what you see with the rest of your life. Personality, appearance, opinions, religions and backgrounds of people all relate to who you are a person and what you believe in. Accepting change into your life could go either allow you to lose something good or gain something even better. Your personality could change either making you a better person or disadvantaging you as a person but either way it’s a learning experience and from this you can grow.
If we don’t change we don’t grow and if we don’t grow we aren’t really living.
In the ‘summer of the seventeenth doll’ Olive’s dream is the lay-off season and all its meaning. Being able to be loved and have fun with people she loves, but without the inconvenience of conventional marriage or worries of having to support a family. She realises that Roo is not the Aussie hero that she thought him to be, as he is getting old and losing his strength, to become a lowly worker in a paint factory, as well as wanting to betray the lay-off ideals by settling down to marry her.
Olive has to accept that roo wants to marry her and wants to give up his job up north to be with her. When roo proposes to her she feels offended and threatened by the prospect of any lifestyle other than the one to which she is use to.
She refuses to marry him, demanding that he give her back what he’s taken from her, “I want what I had before. You give it back to me – give me back what you’ve taken.” Olive accepted this change by leaving; as she leaves it is clear that she is the most tragic of the characters, as she has been broken in spirit by something that meant so much to her; more to her than to any other character.
In the fault in our starts written by john green Augustus and hazel are both fighting for their life with cancer. In order for them to grow for the last few months they have had to accept the change of their medication, who they are and how sick they are becoming. Hazel accepts the fact that she can’t walk long distances without her being short of breath or collapsing. One of their friends Isaac had cancer in his eyes; his eyes were soon removed causing him to become blind. He accepts change in his life and is able to grow with the fact that he doesn’t have his vision anymore. He does almost all of the this he use to except one, his girlfriend broke up with him just before the surgery because she couldn’t deal with the fact that he wouldn’t be able to see. For Isaac to grow he accepted the fact that she wasn’t really worth it and that he can still live his life with his condition.
Whether you accepting change be because of an injury or a life experience once you do you can always grow from that experience and be just like you were before. Accepting change is hard at first and then can become a part of your everyday life when you need it to be. In 2013 I had a hip fusion on my left hip. With this injury I was no longer able to play sport, sit for long periods of time or even tie my shoe laces. As much as I didn’t want to accept the fact that I was different and that I had changed from the experience, I eventually did and l learnt new ways to manage my life which allowed me to grow as a person. Tying your shoe laces back to front while you’re at your friend’s house may not to the coolest thing to do but at the same time you can show others and show yourself how your life has changed from one experience whether it is major or only minor. From this injury I have grown to be a stronger person, you go through disappointment after disappointment but once you’re able to regain your strength and accept the disappointment and change it then forces you to grow for the simple reason because you don’t have a choice.
Accepting change in order to grow is hard, whether it be accepting a medical injury or accepting the fact that your partner wants more than you do. Once you’ve accepted it you live your life to fit around the change that you’ve made. With reference to the summer of the seventeenth doll, olive accepted that she didn’t want the same as roo did and grew by leaving and furthering her life outside of what she is use to. Isaac from the fault in our stars changed by learning to love himself even if he doesn’t have the same vision as he use to and I myself learnt that it doesn’t matter if you’re different from others, if your life changes and you accept that it’s changing then it won’t impact you as much as you think. To truly accept change we must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so we can have the life that is waiting for us.
This response in the form of a personal expository essay which might appear as ab opinion piece in a newspaper or online. Its intended audience is a general readership, though it assumes some general social understanding and familiarity. References are made to texts from familiar popular culture as well as to more literary texts. The theme of change and belonging within summer of the seventeenth doll is the question of whether pearl can fit in with olive and the canecutter family life. She has not shared the past sixteen years with them, and is stepping into an established friendship group with its own norms, expectations and assumptions. While the play shows her making conscious effort to modify her own behaviour to fit in, we see ultimately that she is too different from them, and the struggles to find a sense of belonging within their friendship group.
An expository essay provides a suitable form for a personal exploration of these ideas, with the aim of encouraging readers to reflect on similar ideas and issues as they occur in their own experiences or in the society more broadly. While the essay is subjective it retains some formality and refers to sources beyond personal experience, and uses conversational but grammatically correct language. Its vocabulary aims to engage general readers but still make careful reference to the terms and ideas contained within both the prompt and the context.