“Letting Children Be Children” Essay
“Letting Children Be Children”
Are having straight A’s in school a necessity to achieve success in today’s society? I believe that children should be able to live their childhood as a child, compared to living like an adult. Being a child, you learn to develop into your own being. Children are developing morals, values, and goals while dreaming for the future is a part of life and should not be taken away. Imagine being told you could only receive straight A’s and only attend an Ivy League school to be successful in life. Patrick Goldstein’s “Tiger Mom vs. Tiger Mailroom,” which first appeared in Times on February 6, 2011, emphasizes how you can be successful in life with or without attending college and receiving a degree.
Goldstein used credited information by using quotes from famous successful people as well as credited knowledge from another book. Goldstein argued that you can still become successful in life by having a particular talent instead of receiving a college degree. His statement is compared to Amy Chua’s “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” throughout his article to address his opinion. Chua’s point of view is that a student should attend an Ivy League school and receive only straight A’s to become successful. Goldstein contends likewise.
By reflecting upon others experience, Goldstein per sways his reader to a different point of view in becoming successful in today’s society. Giving the impression to his readers at any age you can be successful, Goldstein connects with different generations of people. Anyone can do whatever they want if they just put their minds to it. Everyone can become successful.
Goldstein logically expresses his opinion by taking information from sources from books and by famous successful individuals. He rationalized his information by comparing the famous individuals to the reader; therefore, providing the reader to have someone to relate and compare to. Goldstein also uses a famous location, Hollywood, to show his reasoning. Goldstein emphasizes: Hollywood, a place that’s been run for nearly a century by men who have never made it through or even to college (Goldstein 272). By using individuals and locations that his readers are familiar with, helps give the reader a connection to the concept that Goldstein is trying to express.
Emotions are expressed immediately at the beginning of the writing to have his readers grasp his feelings of the situation. Goldstein compares Chua’s “Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother” a “depiction of Chinese-style extreme parenting” (Goldstein 272). He then continues to maintain the reader’s attention by explaining Chua’s parenting skills by addressing the fact how the children cannot have play dates, or even watch television. Goldstein inspires his readers by giving individual’s personal experiences that reflect how they became successful.
By reading this article, you are aware that it is credible information by reading the excerpt at the beginning. This article of Goldstein’s was originally published on February 6, 2011 in Times magazine. Besides that successful occurrence, Goldstein writes in a Los Angeles Times by writing “The Big Picture” which is a column that expresses the film industry.
Goldstein has access to famous individuals to support his opinion by letting children be children because of his column he writes. He argues that at any age you can become successful in life with or without a college degree. First, Goldstein discusses a list of individual’s over the age of 40. Those individuals are Steve Jobs, Steven Spielburg, Clint Eastwood and Quentin Tarantino as they have became successful by never attending college, or never finishing college in their lifetime. Secondly, Goldstein reflects upon the younger icons of new-media to continue to support his opinion. Zuckerberg, the founder of Facebook, as well as the founders of Twitter are degree-free.
I agree with Goldstein’s logistics behind his opinion by letting children be children. Sure, children need to be aware of what they wish to become in their future, but they are innocent. Those children need to be given love and care that they deserve, not having to be in a controlling and sheltering lifestyle that Chua’s addressing. By spending time with friends, children can learn to bond and develop relationships.
These relationships are important Goldstein argues. He promoted that: It’s not about where you went to college or how good-looking you are or whether your could play football-it’s about whether you can create a relationship (Goldstein 273). By having these children generate relationships at a young age, when they get older their inner-personal skills can develop into them becoming successful.
I disagree with Goldstein with the point on saying that you have to go to Hollywood to become successful without a college degree. Goldstein expressed how Chua’s parenting code will be in a “radically different perspective” (Goldstein 272) if she went to Hollywood. Yes, Hollywood is a large city with more possibilities, but you do not have to go there to become successful. For example, if a man grew up doing construction work with his family, did not attend college, and loves doing that, he will continue doing that. What if that man became co-owner due to his hard work, relationship skills, and dedication? Would he be considered successful? I would say yes, and he achieved it somewhere other than Hollywood.
I recommend anyone who is trying to decide what to do in their lifetime to read this article. By reading “Tiger Mom vs. Tiger Mailroom,” written by Patrick Goldstein, the reader can connect with the concept how you need to be a child when you are one, by which you can become successful at any age and without a degree. One of the individuals that Goldstein interviewed was Sam Gores.
Sam Gores, head of the Paradigm Agency, never attended college and argued: To succeed, you need to have a strong point of view and a lot of confidence. Sometimes being the most well-informed person in your circle can almost get in your way (Goldstein 274). To become successful it is a level playing field whether it is attending college or not. But, children can be successful in their lifetime when they are adults, even without the Chinese-style extreme parenting. Let children be children and let them follow their own dreams.
Goldstein, Patrick. Tiger Mom vs. Tiger Mailroom. Writing and Reading across the Curriculum. By Laurence Behrens and Leonard J. Rosen. Boston, MA.: Pearson, 2013. 2