As of today, in this generation single moms and dads homes have increased dramatically. Being a single moms and dad is a hard thing to do, even if we have 2 tasks or getting some sort of federal government help. With the world population raising greater and higher, the expense of living is shooting through the roof. Residing in a society like this, you may never ever know what failure single moms and dads may have. Hopefully the world would stop and consider how lots of having a hard time parents reside on this earth.
Single moms have to aim harder in life and attain more than a woman with no kids.
Supplying for you and the child financially is an extremely hard thing to do. Having a stable income can assist and likewise getting aid from member of the family likewise. As being a single mother you need to supply the child with clothes, milk, wipes, shoes, and much more. Looking at the story about my good friend Aniyah having her son name Jayden she had a lot of trouble in offering economically.
She was a single mother without having her infant dad in the image. She has not asked him for anything because he did not come around at all. She started to apply for federal government support to assist her and it hardly satisfied her needs to assist the both of them. The reason it hardly satisfied their needs is due to the fact that the government looks at just how much you make and your family makes if you cope with them.
She decided to look online at a baby calculator to see how much it would cost a year and till he is eighteen. A tough thing for a mother to do is teach a kid how to be a man.
As being a single mother we can teach our boy the basic things he needs to understand to survive. We teach them how to cook, tidy, deal with people with respect, be a gentleman, handle cash, and get a good education. It’s tough to teach a kid when you are doing all the work on your own having to work and try to get a degree in college and also come home and try to be an instructor to him too. However if you do not have time you need to stop doing what you are doing and make time to teach a son the concepts of dealing with teaching him the basic he can accomplish in life. Without a male teaching the little kid how to be a guy by playing sports with him, having male talks, and considering that caring dad bond.
A main thing that a boy needs is a good male role model. He needs someone who cares about his future and his well-being. There is nothing in the world better than love from a father. In my opinion, I feel that if a single parent has a son they should put him in the brothers to brother’s organization. It is a lot better if your son has a role model because if not the boy would tend to stay in trouble during school and around neighborhoods. If someone single parent’s child does not have any kind of role model. Then they should put their child in an organization.
While being a mother you have to work twice as hard, think twice as hard, and also be twice as hard. When I say “work twice as hard,” I mean that you need to have a lot of working hours so that you can take care of you and the baby. When you began to think twice as hard you have to think about what you and the baby needs. When you think you should put the baby first, but don’t put yourself last, when I say “be twice as hard,” you cannot let anything bring you down. You have to continue to be happy and stay that way.
When you find out that you are pregnant you begin to think about the child future and your future. Sometimes when single mothers look at their future they do not think about their future because they think they lost it. That is not true even though you feel as your future is messed up it is not. Yes your child future is very big in the picture, but you should also think about yours at the same time. Your future is important because you have to make an income off of your future. When being a single mother you want the best for your child and yourself.
When you find out that you are pregnant when you are a teenager people begin to judge you. When people begin to judge you they treat you like you did something bad. They also try and tell you what you can and cannot do. When people judge you they do not think about themselves and what they did when they were a teenager. I feel that other people have no right to judge, but they do have the right to entitle their own opinion. My mother always said “if you do not have anything good to say then don’t say anything at all.” People always will try and say something to bring you down and make you feel like you did something wrong. They always throw the words from the bible and tell you that you are going to hell because you had sex before marriage and got pregnant.
When having a baby you have to really get into time management. You do not have kids; wait until you do have kids. All the time you spend with your friends is going to come to an end. After the baby comes into the world there will no longer be any me time for yourself. If you live with close relatives then they may give you some freedom because being around a baby and taking care of it by yourself is stressful.
From the time the child is born until he turn eighteen you have to make good decisions for the child and yourself. Making decisions could be good, bad, or go both ways when you make decisions you have to think about what consequences would happen on your part and also the child part also. While making a decision you have to think harder and longer than people that don’t have children at all. Children also have to make decisions as well. This can be the most stressful thing to a family member.
Now that you have an understanding about the life of single mothers that try to raise a boy into a man is hard and the needs that need to be met for you and the child. Children are wonderful things but its hard work and sacrifices that have to be made. In my opinion if the father has nothing to do with the child the best thing to do is file child support papers so that you can have help and it won’t be too stressful on you and the family.