Since I have started middle school, the one thing I’ve noticed is the large amount of homework that has been assigned not only on week days but also on weekends. I am usually confused to what I am supposed to be doing in class and with the work that I bring home. I have never been very good at understanding and then explaining my work load to my mom at home and she has tried to help me as best as she can by calling my classmates or looking up the school website, even emailing my teachers. So, on a Friday my english teacher gives us an assignment for the weekend.
Read the two argumentative essay and pick who I side with. Then write it up. When I first read over the two essays, Putting Parents in Their Place: Outside Class, and Letter from a “Concerned Mother”, I really liked the idea to keep parents out of the middle school classroom. So I brought my assignment home and asked my mom how I was to begin my essay. My mom reread the instructions to me and it said, “…choose an approach to the subject that matters to you…”. By that time I had forgot that I was to make an argument for or against parent involvement in school.
So I picked a completely different topic than what my teacher had said in class and wrote up my paper for school. Well, I got it completely wrong. So my mom who was really annoyed with me emailed my teacher for clarification. At this point I started talking to my sister about who’s side I should take between the two essays. My sister looks at me and says, “Look at what mom is doing for you. What do you think? ” My sister was right. Our mom does help us as much as she can but she still tries to give us our space at the same time.
I believe that parents should be able to volunteer in classrooms because it offers a support base for the teachers and students, sends a positive message that they consider school important and it allows interaction between teachers and parents for better communication. Some ways a parent volunteer can be helpful is to tutor students, organize fundraising, chaperone trips, input grades, helping students with assignment problems or be a classroom helper.
According to Joan Young, author/educator of 8 Reasons Why Parents Should be Involved at School, “Parent involvement is cited often as a key ingredient to a thriving school community. ” Mrs. Young states that when parents and teachers work together there is better understanding and communication, this creates better trust. Also, a parent who volunteers will get to see another side of their child while they are at school. How they are dealing with peer pressure and social behavior.
When a parent volunteers, whether it’s grading a few papers or tutoring a student, everyone benefits. In an article titled, Parenting Tips: Tips for Volunteer at Your Child’s School, having a parent attend a school function is one of the most rewarding experiences a child has. It tells the child that he is loved so much that his parent went out of their way to support him.
Having their presence known does make for better self-esteem. If the parent comes in with the mindset that he or she is a helper and not the parent it will help with the atmosphere of the class room. Sometimes a parent might want to interfere or show special treatment for their own child or a teacher might be concerned about keeping papers confidential or just doesn’t want to have to train a parent. That is fine. But with a little bit of effort and a lot of communication both sides can meet somewhere in the middle so that the student ends up being the winner.
Without my mom’s help I’m sure my grades would be even worse than they are now. Volunteering not only benefits your kids, but will enrich the classroom, the whole school, and the entire community by providing students with positive interaction, support, and encouragement. That is why I believe parents should be able to volunteer in school.