In the play Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare; Lord Capulet, the father of Juliet, portrays the characteristics of being caring, being stubborn, and being courteous. During the conversation with Paris about his proposal of marriage to Juliet, Capulet shows his caring side by protecting his only daughter when he says that, “My child is yet a stranger in the world,/ She hath not seen the change of fourteen years;/ Let two more summers wither in their pride,/ Ere we may think her ripe to be a bride” (I.ii.8-11). Capulet recognizes that Juliet is too young to become a bride as she is not even fourteen. He also understands from his own experience with marrying Lady Capulet that he should give Juliet more time to prepare for the role as a bride.
Not only is he caring to his family, he also shows courtesy towards his friends and guests. At the masquerade, Lord Capulet displayed his courtesy when he explains to Tybalt, his nephew, that Romeo, “…like a portly gentlemen,”/ where “Verona brags of him/ To be a virtuous and well-govern’d youth/ Here in my house do him disparagement” (I.v. 65-69). Although there is a long standing feud between the Capulet and Montague family, Lord Capulet overlooked their family’s dispute and allowed Romeo to remain at the masquerade to enjoy himself. On the other hand, Capulet has shown signs of mood swings, especially during the conversation when Juliet politely refuses to marry Paris. Capulet overreacts, “How, will she none? Doth she not give us thanks?/ Is she not proud? Doth she not count her blest,/ Unworthy as she is, that we have wrought/ So worthy a gentleman to be her bride? (III. V. 142-145). Lord Capulet’s stubbornness is shown when he is forcing Juliet to marry Paris, even though she cannot. It will be interesting to see if Lord Capulet’s caring, courteous and stubborn characteristics develop further as we continue reading the play Romeo and Juliet.