In the play Romeo and Juliet, Shakespeare shows their love as strong and forceful. But through irrational and sudden decisions by the two lovers, the relationship reaches a new height only to fall due to their youth and misguided advice. Juliet is right when she says their love is “too rash, too unadvised, too sudden” accurately characterizing as well as foreshadowing their tragic love.
Romeo and Juliet’s love is strong and forceful as depicted by Shakespeare. For example when her father demands his right to marry her to Paris she says, “If all else fail, myself have power to die”(III.5.244). This suggests a love so strong and powerful that she would rather die then enter into a false marriage or a life without Romeo. Another example of the power of their love is seen towards the end of the play when Juliet kills herself upon hearing that Romeo is dead. This was not an act of weakness but rather an act of love. Her very act of stabbing her heart with a dagger intensifies the symbol of strong and forceful love even more.
Romeo and Juliet’s relationship reaches a new height only to fall due to their youth and unadvised guidance. Examples of Romeo and Juliet’s inexperience due to youth is portrayed when they decide they are soul mates even though Juliet is only 13 and when they decide to marry after only knowing each other for a couple of days. The ill-advice from the controlling father, the ongoing family feud and the gullible friar contribute to the heightened love and tragedy. For example, when Friar Laurence says to Romeo, “young men’s love then lies. Not truly in their hearts, but in their eyes.”(ActIII,Scene2) shows misjudgement of the Friar’s part. Perhaps if they had been more experienced in life and received better advice then this tragedy could have been prevented and their love prevailed.
Irrational and sudden decisions and actions bring the relationship to a new height, which only leads to tragedy. This can be seen when Romeo sneaks into enemy’s territory to seek Juliet, when he kills his wife’s cousin in a duel, and finally, when he committed suicide when he learns Juliet is dead. In the balcony scene of Act II, Scene 2, Juliet is also aware of the foolhardiness of their love when she states: “It is too rash, too unadvis’d, too sudden.” This sense of irrational and sudden decision accurately characterizes their love, and its doom.