There are more sorrows than joys in life, if someone thinks deeply about it and becomes upset, he can never be happy. We cannot ignore the bitter truths of life and can only search some moments of happiness to keep ourselves satisfied.
The idea of a happy life differs from man to man. True happiness is just a state of mind. It is no way connected with material glory and eminence. There are people who think that happiness is hidden in wealth.
These people are very much sure that the rich lot enjoys life to its fullest. They do what they wish with no worry at all. If this were true, kings and millionaires would be perfectly happy. They would then know no sorrow. But this is not the fact. They are hardly happy. Again there are people who find happiness in high rank and authority. This is also not true.
Whatever may be the concept of happiness one thing is clear that there is no one in this vast world who is satisfied with what he has. It is human nature to wish for more and more and this is the reason of all the miseries. Hence a life of contentment is essential for happiness. One would be satisfied with one’s present lot. There is no limit of worldly possessions.
If some one wishes to have all type of luxury things, it well be the invitation of sorrow and nothing else. Here we can quote the words of Swami Ram Tirth, “Easiest way to the greatest happiness is the most faithful use of what you possess.” Our aim must not be acquiring more and more but keeping satisfied ourselves with what we have acquired.
We must always try to keep our mental state within limit. It is equally important to minimise our wants. Chirst, Buddha, Gandhi, all gave stress on the importance of voluntary renunciation of the worldly possessions to achieve true happiness the greater the simplicity of life, the greater the happiness.
Life is not a bed of roses
“Life is not a bed of roses” saying is in other words as “Life is a bed of thorns” or samituliounsly that “Life is like a battlefield” are deeply refered for youths to growup their capabilities like hardship and sincerety to fufill their ambitions by ignoring either demolishing bad social impacts and behaviour like thrills and Hurricanes behind in support of a great qoute “Tomorrow never dies” or “After every dark night there is a morning”. These all sayings and qoutes are conceptualy equal or same, which are utmost prefered for self motivation, self improvement and self guidance; Generally on this earth life is like hat and tail (Two sides) of a coin, same to same as differnt happy and said moment phases of life,,, But if we will think about it. Life is full of struggle and challenges, and if we want to succeed we should always place our trust in God Almighty, also in ourselves.
God knows what is best for us because He is the only one unique creator of the whole universe and the one who can gives solutions to our problems. God create us individualy and our minds or thoughts are therefore different from each other. We should never think that if we facing pain or un-success than life becomes useless for us. As we say after every dark night that comes up with full of light that brightens up your day. If we face crises than do think that the success is making its way to us. All we have to do is to urge harder to get through all the problems which surely will bring you closer to a better future. We should Never lose the hope as we say that ‘tomorrow never dies’; we have to search,,, we have to stuggle hard,,, we have to overcome fear in ourselves,,, we have to move and more forward in our quest for victory,,,; No matter! what it takes, cause we know it is a hard and difficult journy,,, But when the smole has cleared, we shall emerge as victors and survivors.
Always remember an example that climbing the ladder says to reach to the top you have to climb every single step on the ladder; Same is the case with the success of life. Success is not the ladder which can be climbed with your hands in the pocket.