The ideal spouse may be elusive for many people. Perhaps they don’t know what they’re looking for, perhaps they don’t know how to find the right person, or perhaps the ideal person is simply not in their environment. However, if a person knows what one wants, then the perfect spouse may not only remain a dream, but materialize into reality. For me, there are different ideas about what a dream woman would be. Although many men may say they would like a wife to kind, beautiful and hard working, the ideas about what it means to find this in a woman may not be the same for every man.
A deeper look into the idea of the dream woman from my own perspective may shed light on the unique desires of one man in the search for the right mate. In my opinion, a dream woman would make me feel just like that, as if I were in a dream. She would even out all of the rough spots in my life and make me feel as if I was floating in a sea of relaxation and contentment. Simply the way that she looked or behaved would set my heart on fire and beat a rhythm of soothing music through my life. It would never be that I got tired of her or even wanted her to be away from me for a moment.
Even though there may be situations and times when we couldn’t be together, I would yearn to be back in her presence. The ideal spouse would be a woman who would never let me down and rather have caring, patience and love for me, every moment of every day. Qualities of my dream woman would include her being kind, beautiful, and hard working, and, for me, this means that she would always be open and communicative, she would be thin and take care of herself in healthy ways, and she would love to care for our home and children.
Her kindness would be warm and inviting, like a tender smile or laugh or a gentle touch, her beauty would radiate naturally from within and burst like sunshine to everyone around her, and her hard work would be focused on caring for me, our home, and our family, giving enough quality time and energy to cleaning, cooking, and caring for me and our children. In contrast to other men, the qualities of my dream woman are unique to me. I would not like a wife who was superficial and only cared about things, who was only kind to herself and not to others, who obsessed about the next pricey car or vacation.
It would also be sad to be married to someone who wore shiny clothes, high heels, makeup, or even fake breasts. The perfect woman, in my eyes, would embrace and radiate her own natural beauty, have long hair, wear simple necklaces of shells and wood, and dance around in sandals. Her tan would be natural from playing in the sun and not bought from a tanning salon or a tube of tanning cream. My woman would love cleaning our home and cooking for her family.
She would kiss me before I walked out of the door every day and greet me when I came home, and the love and caring that she’d offer our children would be limitless. As far as romance is concerned, my ideal spouse would love to hold me, kiss me, caress me, have sex with me. She would offer no limit to the amount of tender passion we would share. Every morning and every night in bed together, we would lie side by side and say hello or goodbye to our days with loving touches and words. Just like in dancing, I would take the lead and show her the way toward perfect love making and ecstatic bliss.
She would follow my moves and work along with me in find the best rhythm to our romance and our united life. In speaking to others about our marriage, I would always smile and say that we are nothing less than satisfied, and believe it heart and soul. Finding the perfect soul mate may not be easy, and the idea of what it means for a spouse to be ideal may be different from person to person, however, finding that very special someone or working hard to make a relationship very special and intimate is the foundation of true happiness for many people.
There is no joy in a life without love, and romantic love is at the heart of joy. Families wouldn’t survive without the self giving passion of all of the members, and the tender care between husband and wife is surely something to treasure. The pursuit of health and happiness is something we all crave, and finding it in the eyes of the other half is like the shine of bliss.