Going deaf was a different experience for me. It was the most difficult challenge I’ve ever done. It completely sucked that I couldn’t use most of my electronics. I couldn’t use my phone to call my mom but I was able to text her. I couldn’t listen to music which was the worst because I have to listen to music when I’m working out, cooking or doing work for school. But being deaf wasn’t all that bad. One of the best things of being deaf was not listening to my mom complain!
My mom couldn’t get mad me because she knew I couldn’t hear anything. It was also very peaceful around the house for me. I don’t have to listen to loud vehicles that come down my street, neighbors dog barking and my neighbor’s loud spanish music. There some things that I did have to adjust to my daily life. I usually have to call my younger sister to tell her that the food is done or clean her room, but my sister never hears me so I have physically grab her attention.
Instead I used a bell to call her or throw a ball at her to get her attention. Also I usually watch my anime shows but since I can’t hear anything, I watched it with subtitles without sound. People usually responded to me screaming at me but they forgot that was going death for a day. My mom had throw something at me to get my attention and my sister would grab me if she needed anything. Or they would write their questions on paper but most of the time I would read their lips There were few difficult things that I went through.
When I have no internet, I couldn’t watch my anime or other shows. I had to put my phone on vibrate and always to have it with me. There wasn’t much difficulties besides these but everything else was easy. I’m Khmer/Laotian and it was hard for me to understand my grandparents since they don’t speak english. I learned that without hearing, it’s hard to communicate with other people and family. Without language, it’s hard to understand somebody’s culture. ‘